agreed...who cares if more women drive it. if you want it to look butch def get the R-design and ride around with roof racks on it. To me is not a car that screams one sex or another. If anything the FX seems more feminine for all its curvaciousness. But then I think the FX is and overly styled premium gas guzzler. I like the understated design of the xc60 in that it doesnt scream "I threw in the extra money for all the chrome shiney bits". Also I think an xc60 would be sportier, as the FX is basically huge...the EX is probably more similar in size but way less practical than the XC60. JMHO