My experiences with a good aftermarket wheel has been very positive. I have bent wheels on Mercedes’, Audi and my XC70s. I have TSW and Fifteen52 currently and no issues…….but, I run a 40 and a 55 series tire on them. My Mercedes uses factory staggered wheels in 20”. I bent a front at 9k miles, it was repaired with wheel insurance. So, for me it’s all about pothole size and edges, aspect ratio and cast, flow forged or forged. I hit a huge pothole in my 2014 A8 at night at 75-80 mph. It hit SO hard I immediately pulled over……no damage at all, a TSW rotary forged wheel with a 40 aspect 20” tire. I had the car inspected a few days later for suspension damage the hit was so vicious…. No damage🤞