For vibrations into the cabin, I have found that the upper engine stabilizer contributes a lot to this. I had a poly one from IPD for several years and the dash and steering wheel rattling would drive me crazy, but not enough for me to change it. I finally changed it over to a OE style bushing from PPS (ProPartsSweden) from FCP and it is wonders better. Not perfect in terms of idle vibration, but much better. At the same time, I also understand that it has been ~100k miles since I replaced the OE Volvo rubber mount with the IPD PU one, so things in the dash are definitely more loose in general, and the engine itself is probably not as smooth with 150k on it compared to when it had 30k.
I, also, find that sitting at a light in N (Manual) that the vibrations are the worst. If I give it a slight hint of throttle to raise the RPM's from the 800rpm idle to 1000rpm, the interior vibrations quiet down significantly (think dash/cluster rattle, wiring harnesses behind the radio, glove box, etc). I've done my best to take things apart and add felt tape or rubber gaskets to tighten things up but there are still rattles in a lot of places, but I would consider this pretty normal for a 12 year old 150k+ mile car.
I would also think twice about replacing the lower two cylindrical style engine mounts. They're by far the worst to replace (the rear one above the steering rack is difficult) and mine at 150k miles were perfect, so maybe thoroughly inspect before going down the path of replacing. It will also be worth it to check out the condition of your subframe mounts as if they've gotten hard and brittle over time, they may be transferring more vibrations through the subframe into the cabin.
The lower front mount does little for engine vibration into the cabin unless your motor really vibrates more than normal, and is used to restrict motion backwards during acceleration. The same for the upper mount, but that one translates the most vibrations into the dash area since it's so high up and connected to the shock towers (worse if you have solid 'strut tower mounts' or PU inserts). The lower passenger mount is the one that probably fails most frequently.