The premium woofers have real tiny magnets and weigh basically nothing. The carrier bracket weighs more than the speakers (not that weight is everything)
Sound is very, very personal, and I do believe the dynaudio (when not blown) sound leaps and bounds better than the HK in my polestar, but it is no surprise given the hardware. If you throw more power to them than the factory amp they really, really sing. If you are an everyday listener who just listens to music over bluetooth like 99% of people, I would agree they are comparable.
Failure rate is higher, but I have not seen it as bad as Wagonswede, perhaps it's the geographical difference. My P2R is rocking dynaudio woofers from a 2008 S80 for the past four years now.
The amp in the HK cars is another issue, someone on facebook looked at the signals it was outputting and it was basically pointless trying to get it to sound good with other speakers, there is some DSP/correction going on in the AUD that is tuned specifically for the speakers in the car. The amp from any of the dynaudio cars might work in a pre Sensus Connect car, but I believe MOST is slightly different on Sensus Connect, I have not tried it yet.
I also agree that bass response is better in the high performance system.
I do not like the HK very much at all, I tried swapping in some audiofrog woofers and tweeters and the y sounded pretty much the same, really over pronounced highs, missing vocals, and mediocre bass. I believe this is a result of processing because they sound excellent when powered off a dumb amp. My next project is trying to do the whole OEM dynaudio conversion from earlier P3, and maybe my own DSP/amp.
Check out this thread for some insight:
https://www.swedespeed.com/threads/volvo-v60-audio-install-log.613935/ not an XC/V70 but the challenges will remain the same.
I dont' think wagonswede's compromise is bad either, the tweeters and mids are the magic in the dynaudio systems, but they are 4ohms, you would want to match the woofer at 4ohms also, otherwise you will have some weird volume characteristics as I found out.