2019 S60 Gravel Roads

Uh, are your tires bald? Were you using all wheel drive mode? Was the road wet?

I've driven around on fully iced over roads with no issues in all wheel drive mode, so I'm thinking there's either something wrong with your car or you're just doing it all wrong.

Wait and see if/when OP actually gives details on the car/engine/drive options it is equipped with, AND what mode it was in...